Hello! Thank you for writing in. There is no hard and fast rule on whether things are moving too fast or too slow, it really depends on your own comfort level. If you are feeling uncomfortable at how fast the pace is but would still like to continue seeing this guy, perhaps it would be good to be open about your feelings or concerns to him. Let him know that you have good feelings towards him, but would prefer more time to continue to know him better. It would also be helpful to be clear on the current relationship status, given that there is already a close physical contact (holding hands). Let us know how things pan out for you, and all the best!